Please, have your funeral director contact the parish office before making any funeral arrangements involving St. Matthew. If you are not working with a funeral home yet, please call the parish and they will involve our priests as soon as possible and they will lead you through the process.
In the Catholic Tradition, the Funeral Mass demonstrates this faith in Jesus’ victory over death and our involvement in that resurrection. During the Mass, songs, readings, prayers, blessings, ceremonies, and symbols are specifically used to express this faith. Listed below are some of the elements present in a Funeral Mass.
The priest’s vestments color - The clergy usually wear white vestments. The color white represents Easter, weddings, baptisms, and other happiness, joy, and victory events. This is not only a time for grieving over the loss of a loved one but a celebration of their entrance through death into life eternal. The church also allows for violet or black vestments to be worn.
Music - The hymns and songs generally selected are light and joyful. Easter music proclaiming the Lord’s resurrection is appropriate.
Bible passages - More than seventy scriptural readings are available for a funeral liturgy. There are two options. The first is from the Old Testament, one from the New Testament, and one from the gospels. The second option is from either the Old or New Testament and one from the gospels.
The Easter Candle - This candle, placed in the sanctuary for fifty days after Easter, symbolizes the risen Christ living among us who has conquered sin and death. This candle is carried in a procession or placed before the casket as a reminder that the deceased shares in this victory of Jesus over the powers of darkness.
The sprinkling of the casket - The priest sprinkles holy water over the casket to remind the deceased first baptism.
Incensing of the body - In recognition of the Christian belief that the body is a temple of the Holy Spirit and will one day be resurrected by God, the priest walks around the casket and incenses the body. This is a sign of our respect, a symbol of the community’s prayers for the deceased rising.
Personalized memorial cards - If there is time and resources, personalized memorial cards and leaflets may be used at Mass to help people participate during the liturgy.
Holy Communion - The church encourages those present to share in Holy Communion.
Placing of the Pall - A funeral pall is draped over the coffin at the beginning of the liturgy. This symbolizes the garment given at baptism and our future life in Christ. This pall also signifies that all are equal in the eyes of God. Family or friends are encouraged to drape this.
Reconciliation - Contact the priest in advance if special arrangements need to be made for confession.
Funeral homily and words of remembrance - Based on the scriptural readings, the priest or deacon will give a brief homily. A friend or family member may speak in remembrance of the deceased after the communion prayer and before the final commendation.
Final commendation and committal - The liturgy of final farewell or commendation and committal is the last ceremony after Mass and at the cemetery.